Update #108 on Kevin

It is with somber mood and mixed emotions that I write this, possibly the last update at Meadowbrook. It started with news today that his third TB sputum test came back negative. The doctor told us that his blood tests look good, Kevin seemed to be doing well, and that we could start looking at a discharge tomorrow afternoon.


Wow, that was this afternoon…..it has seemed like a whirlwind since then. It has felt so quick. I know we have been here for awhile, but this weekend we didn’t even know when we would get results back for TB, we were told at the end of last week that it could take as long as 2 to 6 weeks, and one staff member even told us that they thought it would be bad medicine to send him home prior to getting the final results. Now, we are scrambling to get things in place. There still seems to be several things that need to happen before he can be discharged tomorrow.

Last night, Kevin threw up about twelve times. A non-RT staff member suctioned him several times and the vomiting started happening between the 2nd and 3rd suctions (yes, there was a bit of spit up at the 2nd suction, and yet they continued giving him a couple minutes to recuperate in between). It took Kevin a good hour and a half to settle down. Also, after checking for residuals, the charge nurse left Kevin’s feeding plug open. Angie found bile spilling out all over his clothes.

We are talking with a couple doctors about taking Kevin on. We hope to hear back from them tomorrow. We are also trying to get the hoyer situation straightened out at the house. They brought a hoyer to transport someone that is in a sitting position from bed to chair, but Kevin needs a hoyer and sling that transports someone laying down. The bed that was delivered to the house was making these jarring popping noises that sounded like the bed was coming apart. We called the Equipment company to come and take a look at it only to find that it had been put together askew and the railing was hitting the bed and springs making the noises.

There have been some very good moments here at Meadowbrook and some very trying ones as well. Today I tried to soothe a relationship with a staff member who had taken offense at a misunderstood question that I raised. Upon passing her in the hall, I told her I was sorry that it had happened and would have gone on, but she continued to walk by me as I spoke. When she got about twenty paces down the hallway, without turning around to face me, said “whatever” and continued walking away. Whew…..

I read back over the first posts after arriving here and thought about all the things that had transpired here. Many friends have been made. Many statements of encouragement were given us. When Kevin arrived here three months ago, he had just started opening his eyes, was still on a respirator and had C-Diff among other ailments. His chest tube hole was healing as was the skin over his skull fracture. Since then, he started yawning, moving his eyes more, getting over muscle spasms, getting through times of fever and recently begun responding more often to vocal commands. Several times lately, when I leaned in to kiss him on the cheek he pushed his head towards mine. And several staff members have noted that he seems to be smiling. The right side of his face seems to be getting more movement in it and the left side of his face seems to be loosening up from reflex tones.

Today a few times he has closed his right eyelid when he is resting. He has been doing that more within the past couple weeks, and today he seems to be resting well. Some things haven’t changed though, tonight a couple newer staff members asked me who was older between Kevin and myself. Joking, I appeared appalled and told them I am twelve years younger than Kevin. Kevin has aged very well and has enjoyed that fact. I can’t tell you how many times someone has thought he was my twin or younger brother. Good grief!

As we look to bring Kevin home, our goal is to continue caring for him as he progress with the hope that an acute rehab center would be able to re-evaluate Kevin for admittance in their program. In the meantime our family will lean on God and his church as we forge onward. We’ll let you know if he gets discharged tomorrow.

Thanks for reading and praying,
Matt, Angie and family
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